Higher Authority in Negotiation
It may go against your instincts since appearing powerful seems like the more effective way to negotiate, but having the final say in a decision actually weakens your bargaining position.
Car salesmen know this – if you’ve ever been haggling at a car dealership, you’ve seen them do it in every single negotiation.
Here’s the scene: After 30 minutes to an hour of haggling, the sheet of paper with four squares on it is covered in random numbers and “calculations.”
Salesman: Mr. Johnson, if I sell this car for a dollar under $25,224.43, I’ll get fired!
Customer: I truly can’t afford more than $24,000 for this car. That’s the best offer I can make.
Salesman: Well, I’ll see if I can convince my manager to go for it. He’s not going to like it, but I’ll see what I can do.
[Salesman leaves, to go "plead with his manager" (often, the salesman just sits in the office and the manager doesn't talk to him at all, just continues working and ignores him)]
10 minutes later…
[Salesman comes running back, panting from exhaustion]
Salesman: Well, I talked to my manager. He says that $24,000 is $1,000 under invoice, so we can’t possibly go that low…
…And the negotiation continues like this for another 2-5 hours.
The point is that the dealership has intentionally created a situation in which the salesman is not the final decision-maker. He has to get everything approved by his manager. By doing this, he is able to pretend that he’s really on your side (good guy/bad guy), trying to help you out and convince his “crazy manager” to “give a break to a good person like yourself, just this once.” Of course he’s not on your side – he’s working for the dealership, trying to earn a commission! Using this tactic is a way to leverage the negotiation more in his favor, putting pressure on you without being confrontational.
How can you use this in car buying or selling? After all, you don’t have a sales manager who needs to approve your decisions, it’s just you. I’m sure some of you will cry out that this is unethical, but in order to use this very common negotiation tactic yourself, you will have to make it appear that you are not the final decision-maker, even if you are.
If you’re buying a car, you can use your significant other as the higher authority: “I think I can give you $14,500 for it, but I need to check with my wife first. She would kill me if I didn’t check with her first.”
If you’re selling a car, you can potentially do the same thing – say that you are helping your friend sell a car, or that you need to just check with your significant other before letting the car go for that price.
Also, you should be aware of other people using this negotiation tactic against you and try to neutralize it as soon as possible by establishing that they are the final decision-maker early on. Car salespeople will do this by asking you something like, “If I can find you the car that you’re looking for, is there any reason why you can’t buy today?”
I’ll leave you with a scene from the movie Boiler Room, which is about extremely aggressive stock brokers selling shares of fictional companies. The main character, played by Giovanni Ribisi, is trying to remove a potential client’s higher authority to buy stock:
“I need to talk to my wife first, and then I’ll call you right back.”
“No, you don’t need to do that Harry…”
“I need to talk to her first.”
“Tell me, Harry, you’re at work right now, aren’t you? What do you do for a living?”
“I’m a purchasing manager at a gourmet foods company.”
“So does part of your job involve making decisions?”
“Of course.”
“So, when you’re making a lot of these decisions, do you call your wife and ask her what you should do?”
“Of course not, but that’s a little bit different…”
I’m not advocating being a slimy salesperson, but you should always be aware of when the other party is using a higher authority to negotiate with you and try to remove that excuse before they get a chance to use it.


